BREAKING MY SILENCE ON CHRISTMAS COOKIE BOXES

December 12, 2022

Okay, we just love cookies at Christmastime and by “we” I mean the collective populace of homemakers. Christmas is so much hustle and bustle which is PART OF WHAT I LIKE ABOUT IT and I want to make a lot of cookies, more than someone could in just one day. Yet, I love the concept of the “Cookie Day” and when it all converges at one time in a day of grandeur. But, if you want to make huge quantities of six or seven types of cookies (and treats), that kind of makes it too much of a grind if you’re solo, or solo and involving children.

The other thing in addition to solving cookie day scheduling is I like making cookies here and there throughout the month of December too. This post is about my solution and methods – which I really like how it works out for several reasons. It still accomplishes what I like about each scenario.

And, the list of my cookie boxes bake list for this year.

First, the 2022 bake list:

  1. salted chocolate chunk shortbread by alison roman: “the cookie,” just performing a browser search you have to get behind the new york times paywall to see the recipe, but for some reason, at least at the time of writing, when you search it on pinterest you can see the recipe in full for freesies
  2. gingerbread men: I like my cookies sweet and very soft and that is rare in gingerbread so I wrote my own
  3. coconut chocolate truffles by sally mckenney
  4. matzo caramel bark by zoë francois
  5. rum butter glaze by helen goh over snickerdoodles with holly berry sprinkles
  6. peanut butter pecan cookie sandwiches

So, freezing doughs. I make a dough on different days in december in advance of cookie day. I do a single type of dough in about a quadruple batch. It is a fun night, it could be the thing in the advent calendar for the day. The night we make that certain cookie, we pull out a small amount to make a single sheet pan of usually nine to twelve cookies that are for us to have right then. Which is lovely to still have the satisfaction of eating cookies and not just mere prep. Then, I freeze the rest of the dough and bring it out on COOKIE DAY.

The other great thing is if you’re trying a new recipe, or, I feel like every time with baking, especially cookies, you’re feeling out how they’re turning out with that batch. It’s also like a test batch so when you do the big batch for other people it helps them go well with things like deciding how thick you want to roll out the dough and how they’re baking up.

FREEZING METHODS

I do this for three or four cookies whose methods or doughs are most conducive to freezing well. I think the best method for freezing quality is wrapping your big ball of dough (not rolling individuals) in plastic wrap. Then wrap the plastic wrap in parchment paper. Then put that inside a gallon freezer bag.

You bring your doughs out the night before cookie day and they will be thaw by morning. It’s really nice to on cookie day straight away have some that can go in the oven to keep the oven workflow active and moving while you’re preparing others. And so, I love it! You have some cookies through the whole month and your cookie day runs well and is fun. It is also conducive to the COOKIE BOXES you give to loved ones having the greatest mix of items and not just one or two you made shortly before the box. And they are fresh.

In summary, this could be your plan for this slate of cookies.

throughout december: make and freeze shortbread dough, gingerbread dough, snickerdoodle dough, and oatmeal cookie dough.
night before: make peanut butter sandwich filling and coconut chocolate truffles. remove frozen doughs from freezer to thaw.
cookie day: bake shortbread, gingerbread, and oatmeal cookies. make rum butter glaze and matzo caramel bark. assemble peanut butter pecan cookie sandwiches. decorate snickerdoodles and gingerbread.

FOOD STYLING

That’s the nuts and bolts of the method, now some styling and presentation ideas. Regarding composition, I think a cookie box looks best with these components – a couple classic round cookies, a cookie sandwich, an irregular element, a ball element, a bark element, and a candy element.

For the cookie boxes that I want to be a really large gift, I do a shallow wooden rectangle box (in picture) that’s available at typical craft stores on those like, raw wood aisles with a bunch of raw wood objects. I think those are perfect. Here are wood trays on amazon too, actually at a better price. You can get ones with dividers, sometimes those are harder to find and it does just fine without dividers, though they are cute. (Sometimes product packaging weirdly comes in a nice wood box, think like, the target dollar spot. You could save those throughout the year for a cookie box.)

Also on amazon are some affordable brown craft paper-y smaller trays with lids which are also good for cookie boxes you need to be a little more durable in transport.

For stylization I do some unwrapped mini candy canes, a little bit of rosemary (my favorite herb to garnish with, second place is sage), and some cute ribbons or strings to wrap up some of the cookie stacks or make accentuations. Certainly candied or dried oranges are appropriate. If you’re delivering one really fresh, you could do a little sift of powder sugar on the treats it would look good on.

I have this little canister for sifting powder sugar. It’s just a can that’s lid is a sifter. I love the look of sifted powedered sugar for food presentation, but you have to get a whole sifter dirty. This is so great; you can do some on top really fast without dirtying any dishes.

I think that’s it for my methods and the 2022 cookie box. Merry Christmas, my people. Those on whom His favor rests goodwill shall never cease. ♥️

Okay, we just love cookies at Christmastime and by “we” I mean the collective populace of homemakers. Christmas is so much hustle and bustle which is PART OF WHAT I LIKE ABOUT IT and I want to make a lot of cookies, more than someone could in just one day.

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HOW DO I REMAIN A FEMININE HOMEMAKER DURING A HARD SEASON?

November 28, 2022

Dear Rachel, How should women stay feminine and keep up with your home appropriately in late pregnancy? I’m 34 weeks pregnant. I have almost no clothes that fit and don’t think it is prudent to buy a whole new wardrobe of cute things for just a couple more weeks. There are also lots of household chores I physically can’t do anymore (i.e. scrubbing out the bath tub, putting on the kids shoes, etc). Is it okay for those few weeks to lean on my husband more for help? We have two kids but they are only age 2 and age 1 so they do their chores as they’re able but there are still big things I need help with. Would love any and all thoughts!

Sincerely,
Third Trimester

Dear Third Trimester,

I think some of the principles of this question apply to many circumstances – a medical problem, newborn baby, husband needing to work long hours, and so on.

First, sit down and reflect on where the friction in your day (or week) specifically occurs. Getting precise beyond a general “overwhelmed” or “tired” helps significantly. If you really think, is it actually that the morning goes well, but at 4pm you have a stamina drop that converges with children wanting to talk and dinner preparation. There could be issues at multiple parts of the day, but still get specific on each of them. On your own try to imaginatively problem solve. Women are highly creative and very good at this. Often we can be merely reacting to each day, but a little reflection at a higher level can make new ideas flow more easily. You may still be trying to operate in a not third trimester (or whatever unique season) schedule! There could be something to cut from your day, a new practice to do at a certain time, or realizing just changing the time when something is done fixed a big problem.

When I have a season in “bare minimum” mode, the things I prioritize are 1) kind words and control of my mouth all day, and 2) food for people to eat and clean clothes (either myself or by delegation to able children). 

For dress, I think it is most easy to look polished in all black, so I do multiples of the same flattering black pieces. All black with a feminine necklace requires little mental power to put together each day, but can look refined even in the grueling times. This may be customized for your style or coloring, but the concept is an idea.

One of the predominant considerations when “editing” for a season is what your husband values most. You may know these answers already from being a student of him and it will be easy to make choices based on this. This could be something such as, to him the house is “clean” when the kitchen island is clear. Or, he likes his work shirts ready and if those are ironed his life feels orderly. So you do those and don’t focus on folding toddler clothing inside their drawers. If you’re wearing just a bright lipstick he may think you look attractive even with no other makeup or hair styling. Or, I know my husband doesn’t like top knots so I rarely do my hair that way, even in a cozy outfit. 

If you are at an impasse, or don’t know your husbands priorities, gently explain to your husband some of the limitations you’re experiencing. Perhaps give an example of how the day or week goes (unhysterically!) and where the friction point(s) occur(s). Speak sensibly, as a christian who is not without hope. Ask what you should do and what his preferences are.

If you have only very small children or a very severe limitation, you may not be able to accomplish even meals and clothing on your own. Your husband may offer to take on something, or he will otherwise let you know what the solution should be. I would not recommend entering the conversation with a narrow view of what the resolution must be (ex: he volunteers for a certain task). Resolve to try what he suggests.

Lastly, a word about the off season. I consider how smoothly my house runs in a hard time an assessment of how good I am as a homemaker all the time. Was I prepared in and out of season? Am I afraid of snow for the household? This is from Proverbs 31. Good homemakers must know how to plan. 

A top tier homemaker is ready for “snow” anytime. Are there good meals in the freezer for the unforeseen? How far can I make $100 stretch? How well trained are my children to obey the sound of my voice? Do my storage systems work well for our behaviors? Can I speak kindly while in physical pain? Can the five year old fold a basket of assorted laundry? How good of a homemaker am I?

This post is part of the mail bag series. You can submit a question on femininity by dm on instagram or e-mailing [email protected]

For further reading consider this post on mothering with chronic pain or illness.

Dear Rachel, How should women stay feminine and keep up with your home appropriately in late pregnancy? I’m 34 weeks pregnant. I have almost no clothes that fit and don’t think it is prudent to buy a whole new wardrobe of cute things for just a couple more weeks. There are also lots of household chores I physically can’t do anymore (i.e.

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THE MOST BEAUTIFUL CHRISTMAS CHILDREN’S BOOKS (NO SANTA OR IMAGES OF JESUS)

November 23, 2022

God and sinners reconciled! Merry Christmas. Let’s do a curation of children’s books for it. I have heard of some people who do a children’s book advent calendar where they wrap each of their christmas books every year and open one each day during the first twenty five days of December. I find that so sweet and I think that would help everyone really savor each book. I also love having them all out all at once. I cannot decide! This list has enough titles to do it if you’d like! This curation does not include straight snow or wintertime selections, which will come later lord willing.

I love curating book collections (and I don’t discriminate against “lower” art mediums so movies too) that are beautiful or good in some way to share with others. And I am highly selective! In general what I look for in children’s literature (and all art forms) is a piece that somehow captures some of whatever is true, noble, just, pure, lovely, of good report, of any virtue, or praiseworthy.

Books that come out into the house annually for a season are going to be pretty powerful for family culture so I want to find good ones. I consider this work to be refining a child’s palette. I am helping shape an appetite for what is beautiful, as defined by God.

Below is the extremely researched and refined list of favorites that thread our seemingly impossible christmas needle. Should your wants be similar, here is the metric.

  1. If it tries to go biblical, it is accurate. (So like none lol.) Also often a kicker, we do no imagery of Jesus (second commandment).
  2. Does not say someone learned, discovered, found, etc. the “true meaning of christmas… _______” and then fills in the blank with something that is not the true meaning of christmas. Note: The true meaning of Christmas is Jesus Christ is the light of the world and whoever follows him will not walk in darkness.
  3. Non-santa. (I’m meaning in his modern form.) We aren’t like, scared of santa and if our kids KNOW WHO HE IS they will not forget all about the incarnation immediately. For us he’s kind of a quantity thing; we don’t do him in books or talk about him coming, and we only have two movies he’s in and we save it for ones we really love something else about it (technical excellence).
  4. Other stray things like in The Nutcracker or Twelve Days of Christmas, women are modestly dressed and men aren’t effeminate.

You’re maybe thinking this leaves nothing but here they are, all twenty five. Hail the Son of Righteousness. ✨

  1. Annie and the Wild Animals by Jan Brett
  2. Gingerbread Friends by Jan Brett
  3. Little Christmas Tree by Jessica Courtney-Tickle
  4. The Story Orchestra: The Nutcracker by Jessica Courtney-Tickle
  5. God Bless Our Christmas by Hannah C. Hall
  6. A Very Merry Christmas Prayer by Bonnie Jensen
  7. Christmas Cookie Day by Tara Knudsen
  8. The History of Christmas by Heather Lefebvre
  9. Jesus: The Promised Child by Carine Mackenzie
  10. Jesus: The Real Story by Carine Mackenzie
  11. Mary Mother of Jesus by Carine Mackenzie
  12. The Best Baby by Catherine Mackenzie
  13. Jesus Christ the Best King of All by Catherine Mackenzie
  14. The Very First Christmas by Catherine Mackenzie
  15. A Charlie Brown Christmas: The Making of a Tradition by Lee Mendelson
  16. Apple Tree Christmas by Trinka Hakes Noble
  17. An Orange for Frankie by Patricia Polacco
  18. The Twelve Days of Christmas by Emma Randall
  19. Christmas Farm by Mary Lyn Ray
  20. A Christmas Prayer by Sonja Rescek
  21. The Gingerbread Man by Richard Scarry
  22. A Charlie Brown Christmas by Charles M. Schulz
  23. The Special Baby by Hazel Scrimshire
  24. The Lightlings by R.C. Sproul
  25. The Gingerbread Man by Gail Yerrill

All of these (at time of posting) would be $273 to have the whole slate. All of them are strong and over a long time I have filtered out MANY ugly or poor ones, even just within the christmas category!

If it’s helpful, I put most of these as amazon links, so you can source them easily there! A few of these are from a publisher called christian focus and they are not currently available on amazon, so I linked to them on the publisher’s website where they are for sale.

If from this list you know of one I’ve missed that sounds like we’d like please tell me!!

This post is a part of my very selective curations series of books and movies.

God and sinners reconciled! Merry Christmas. Let’s do a curation of children’s books for it. I have heard of some people who do a children’s book advent calendar where they wrap each of their christmas books every year and open one each day during the first twenty five days of December.

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