Controversial post alert! Wood is beautiful. I like wood grain. I have painted over a lot of wood in my house (and kept some). It is a hard decision! We chose to paint the wood trim in our family room, IN SUMMARY, because we like the beauty of wood grains and other natural textures. The heaviness and intense contrast of the beams absorbed all the availability for warm or wood tones or leather in the space. Update: One year later and I can’t believe we waited so long to do this. SO MUCH BETTER!!
Okay, the reasons.
I FOUND MYSELF DESIGNING EVERYTHING IN THE ROOM AROUND ACCOMMODATING THEM.
The beams were very prominent and high contrast. And added a huge warm tone presence, along with the already warm wood floors and antique brass elements. To compensate I would have to make everything light, white, and cool.
I have wanted to replace our slipper chairs with leather arm chairs and that is what cracked this conversation open. Previously I had ruled leather out because they would be too warm and even more brown. With these painted, I feel I can add leather easily. Also before the beams were painted I definitely could not bring any more wood in via furniture, but now I can get a nice wood sofa table or side table if I like.
I NEVER FOUND MYSELF THINKING, “I REALLY LIKE HOW THESE LOOK.”
And certainly not, “I love how these look.” At best, “these are okay/good enough/workable/I think I should keep these wood.” My long term goal is to really like all the elements of our house and these weren’t going to achieve that.
I THOUGHT MY HUSBAND WANTED TO KEEP THE WOOD, BUT ACTUALLY HE DIDN’T.
I felt like I remembered David once saying he wanted to keep the wood beams, but I think I maybe just assumed? GUYS LIKE WOOD GRAIN generally. When I was torn, but getting more serious about painting, I brought it up and he helped me see painting was best and what both of us would like better.
IT IS NOT PERMANENT.
I am not in the camp of opposition to or fear mongering about painting wood. I think it doesn’t have a bearing on resale. And I don’t know what people in general mean when they say it’s “permanent” to paint. Like, there’s wood trim for sale at home depot if it’s an actual ruined your house catastrophe. (I think it won’t be.) Always keeping the wood because someone’s afraid to paint is effectively permanent too. Still, I have gone gradually in places I wasn’t sure.
THE WOOD WASN’T HIGH QUALITY.
A final phase of decision making was talking it over with my ever design savvy friend elysia. She helped me see that they are a weird in between of rustic and traditional. Like the shape of the moulding is more traditional, but the quality of the wood is very knotty. Are they rustic? Are they polished? As David put it, they just don’t go with the direction of everything else in our house.
The stain color was not great as well. It was similar to the floors, but not a perfect match. And our floors aren’t so amazing that I am like I want to draw out and feature that stain more and more.
To paint, we first did two coats of kilz high hide primer with a brush and four inch roller combo. Then we did three coats of ralph lauren “chalk white” in eggshell.
Even once we had only primed, we instantly loved it. They were holding the room back so badly. Our whole first floor really. We feel so many more OPTIONS now.