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CHRISTMASTIME SNACK MIX

December 17, 2022

One of the ways I create some reoccurring family culture is a seasonal snack mix! I make an enormous size thing of it and keep it on the counter. I recommend getting a big two gallon jar (not expensive here) to store it this way. It feels fun and almost like a decoration. And I recommend putting it out on the counter one or two days before it is eaten for the first time at some special juncture. We love it as a popcorn mix in on movie nights.

And a scoop is sometimes served on its own from time to time as a little snack for people. (And naturally David often self serves himself impromptu handfuls as well, as he should.) My eastertime snack mix and autumn snack mix are there if you’d like to save them for then!

CHRISTMASTIME SNACK MIX
Serves like, a 2 gallon thing

a seasonal cereal, here I did a hot cocoa stars one
mini frosted shredded wheats
mini nilla wafers
white chocolate covered pretzels
white chocolate chips
mini marhsmallows
red and green m&m’s

Mix ingredients together.

Note: These ingredients are VERY free wheeling given the nature of this concept! Consider them more ideas.

CHRISTMASTIME SNACK MIX
 
Author:
Ingredients
  • a seasonal cereal, here I did a hot cocoa stars one
  • mini frosted shredded wheats
  • mini nilla wafers
  • white chocolate covered pretzels
  • white chocolate chips
  • mini marhsmallows
  • red and green m&m's
Instructions
  1. Mix ingredients together.
  2. Note: These ingredients are VERY free wheeling given the nature of this concept! Consider them more ideas.

You can see more posts about Christmastime here.

One of the ways I create some reoccurring family culture is a seasonal snack mix! I make an enormous size thing of it and keep it on the counter. I recommend getting a big two gallon jar (not expensive here) to store it this way. It feels fun and almost like a decoration.

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BREAKING MY SILENCE ON CHRISTMAS COOKIE BOXES

December 12, 2022

Okay, we just love cookies at Christmastime and by “we” I mean the collective populace of homemakers. Christmas is so much hustle and bustle which is PART OF WHAT I LIKE ABOUT IT and I want to make a lot of cookies, more than someone could in just one day. Yet, I love the concept of the “Cookie Day” and when it all converges at one time in a day of grandeur. But, if you want to make huge quantities of six or seven types of cookies (and treats), that kind of makes it too much of a grind if you’re solo, or solo and involving children.

The other thing in addition to solving cookie day scheduling is I like making cookies here and there throughout the month of December too. This post is about my solution and methods – which I really like how it works out for several reasons. It still accomplishes what I like about each scenario.

And, the list of my cookie boxes bake list for this year.

First, the 2022 bake list:

  1. salted chocolate chunk shortbread by alison roman: “the cookie,” just performing a browser search you have to get behind the new york times paywall to see the recipe, but for some reason, at least at the time of writing, when you search it on pinterest you can see the recipe in full for freesies
  2. gingerbread men: I like my cookies sweet and very soft and that is rare in gingerbread so I wrote my own
  3. coconut chocolate truffles by sally mckenney
  4. matzo caramel bark by zoë francois
  5. rum butter glaze by helen goh over snickerdoodles with holly berry sprinkles
  6. peanut butter pecan cookie sandwiches

So, freezing doughs. I make a dough on different days in december in advance of cookie day. I do a single type of dough in about a quadruple batch. It is a fun night, it could be the thing in the advent calendar for the day. The night we make that certain cookie, we pull out a small amount to make a single sheet pan of usually nine to twelve cookies that are for us to have right then. Which is lovely to still have the satisfaction of eating cookies and not just mere prep. Then, I freeze the rest of the dough and bring it out on COOKIE DAY.

The other great thing is if you’re trying a new recipe, or, I think lots of time with baking, (especially cookies) you’re feeling out how they’re turning out with that batch. It’s also like a test batch so when you do the big batch for other people it helps them go well with things like deciding how thick you want to roll out the dough and how they’re baking up.

FREEZING METHODS

I do this for three or four cookies whose methods or doughs are most conducive to freezing well. I wrap the big ball of dough (not rolling individuals) in plastic wrap. Then wrap the plastic wrap in parchment paper. Then put that inside a gallon freezer bag.

You bring your doughs out the night before cookie day and they will be thawed by morning. It’s really nice to on cookie day straight away have some that can go in the oven to keep the oven workflow active and moving while you’re preparing others. And so, I love it! You have some cookies through the whole month and your cookie day runs well and is fun. It is also conducive to the COOKIE BOXES you give to loved ones having the greatest mix of items and not just one or two you made shortly before the box. And they are fresh.

In summary, this could be your plan for this slate of cookies.

throughout december: make and freeze shortbread dough, gingerbread dough, snickerdoodle dough, and oatmeal cookie dough.
night before: make peanut butter sandwich filling and coconut chocolate truffles. remove frozen doughs from freezer to thaw.
cookie day: bake shortbread, gingerbread, and oatmeal cookies. make rum butter glaze and matzo caramel bark. assemble peanut butter pecan cookie sandwiches. decorate snickerdoodles and gingerbread.

FOOD STYLING

That’s the nuts and bolts of the method, now some styling and presentation ideas. Regarding composition, I think a cookie box looks best with these components – a couple classic round cookies, a cookie sandwich, an irregular element, a ball element, a bark element, and a candy element.

For the cookie boxes that I want to be a really large gift, I do a shallow wooden rectangle box (in picture) that’s available at typical craft stores on those raw wood aisles with a bunch of raw wood objects. I think those are perfect. Here are wood trays on amazon too, actually at a better price. You can get ones with dividers, sometimes those are harder to find and it does just fine without dividers, though they are cute. (Sometimes product packaging even comes in a nice wood box. You could save those throughout the year for a cookie box.)

Also on amazon are some affordable brown craft paper-y smaller trays with lids which are also good for cookie boxes you need to be a little more durable in transport.

For stylization I do some unwrapped mini candy canes, a little bit of rosemary (my favorite herb to garnish with, second place is sage), and some cute ribbons or strings to wrap up some of the cookie stacks or make accentuations. Certainly candied or dried oranges are appropriate. If you’re delivering one really fresh, you could do a little sift of powder sugar on the treats it would look good on.

I have this little canister for sifting powder sugar. It’s just a can thats lid is a sifter. I love the look of sifted powedered sugar for food presentation, but you have to get a whole sifter dirty. This is so great; you can do some on top really fast without dirtying any dishes.

I think that’s it for my methods and the 2022 cookie box. Merry Christmas, my readers. Those on whom His favor rests goodwill shall never cease. ♥️

Okay, we just love cookies at Christmastime and by “we” I mean the collective populace of homemakers. Christmas is so much hustle and bustle which is PART OF WHAT I LIKE ABOUT IT and I want to make a lot of cookies, more than someone could in just one day.

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READER QUESTION: HOW DO I REMAIN A FEMININE HOMEMAKER DURING A HARD SEASON?

November 28, 2022

Dear Rachel, How should women stay feminine and keep up with your home appropriately in late pregnancy? I’m 34 weeks pregnant. I have almost no clothes that fit and don’t think it is prudent to buy a whole new wardrobe of cute things for just a couple more weeks. There are also lots of household chores I physically can’t do anymore (i.e. scrubbing out the bath tub, putting on the kids shoes, etc). Is it okay for those few weeks to lean on my husband more for help? We have two kids but they are only age 2 and age 1 so they do their chores as they’re able but there are still big things I need help with. Would love any and all thoughts!

Sincerely,
Third Trimester

Dear Third Trimester,

I think some of the principles of this question apply to many circumstances – a medical problem, newborn baby, husband needing to work long hours, and so on.

First, sit down and reflect on where the friction in your day (or week) specifically occurs. Getting precise beyond a general “overwhelmed” or “tired” helps significantly. If you really think, is it actually that the morning goes well, but at 4pm you have a stamina drop that converges with children wanting to talk and dinner preparation. There could be issues at multiple parts of the day, but still get specific on each of them. On your own try to imaginatively problem solve. Women are highly creative and very good at this. Often we can be merely reacting to each day, but a little reflection at a higher level can make new ideas flow more easily. You may still be trying to operate in a not third trimester (or whatever unique season) schedule! There could be something to cut from your day, a new practice to do at a certain time, or realizing just changing the time when something is done fixed a big problem.

When I have a season in “bare minimum” mode, the things I prioritize are 1) kind words and control of my mouth all day, and 2) food for people to eat and clean clothes (either myself or by delegation to able children). 

For dress, I think it is most easy to look polished in all black, so I do multiples of the same flattering black pieces. All black with a feminine necklace requires little mental power to put together each day, but can look refined even in the grueling times. This may be customized for your style or coloring, but the concept is an idea.

One of the predominant considerations when “editing” for a season is what your husband values most. You may know these answers already from being a student of him and it will be easy to make choices based on this. This could be something such as, to him the house is “clean” when the kitchen island is clear. Or, he likes his work shirts ready and if those are ironed his life feels orderly. So you do those and don’t focus on folding toddler clothing inside their drawers. If you’re wearing just a bright lipstick he may think you look attractive even with no other makeup or hair styling. Or, I know my husband doesn’t like top knots so I rarely do my hair that way, even in a cozy outfit. 

If you are at an impasse, or don’t know your husbands priorities, gently explain to your husband some of the limitations you’re experiencing. Perhaps give an example of how the day or week goes (unhysterically!) and where the friction point(s) occur(s). Speak sensibly, as a christian who is not without hope. Ask what you should do and what his preferences are.

If you have only very small children or a very severe limitation, you may not be able to accomplish even meals and clothing on your own. Your husband may offer to take on something, or he will otherwise let you know what the solution should be. I would not recommend entering the conversation with a narrow view of what the resolution must be (ex: he volunteers for a certain task). Resolve to try what he suggests.

Lastly, a word about the off season. I consider how smoothly my house runs in a hard time an assessment of how good I am as a homemaker all the time. Was I prepared in and out of season? Am I afraid of snow for the household? This is from Proverbs 31. Good homemakers must know how to plan. 

A top tier homemaker is ready for “snow” anytime. Are there good meals in the freezer for the unforeseen? How far can I make $100 stretch? How well trained are my children to obey the sound of my voice? Do my storage systems work well for our behaviors? Can I speak kindly while in physical pain? Can the five year old fold a basket of assorted laundry? How good of a homemaker am I?

This post is part of the reader questions series. You can submit a question on femininity by dm on instagram.

For further reading consider this post on mothering with chronic pain or illness.

Dear Rachel, How should women stay feminine and keep up with your home appropriately in late pregnancy? I’m 34 weeks pregnant. I have almost no clothes that fit and don’t think it is prudent to buy a whole new wardrobe of cute things for just a couple more weeks. There are also lots of household chores I physically can’t do anymore (i.e.

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